Sunday, August 3, 2008

Story Telling Technique

One technique that will surely help you is to make sure to master storytelling. Through storytelling you learn to capture the entire attention of the group. Also you directly convey your personality and it gets you accustomed to doing so. The skills that are developed from strong storytelling directly carry over into your social personality that make all conversation with you more exciting and vivid. The expressiveness you show in stories ties into your future interactions and directly improves your social personality.

You can convey things through storytelling that you normally could not say..

Saturday, August 2, 2008

Nonverbal Flirting Techniques

Eye Contact

Your eyes must probably the most flirting tool. Eyes are extremely high-powered transmitters of vital social signal. How you look at another person, meets the persons gaze and look away can make all difference between a successful and enjoyable flirtation. Looking directly into the eyes of your victim is such a powerful and emotional loaded act of communication. A good thing to initiate flirtation using eye contacts with an attractive strange.

Postural Echo
When flirting you can use postural echo to create a feeling of harmony and togetherness. Sometimes we deliberately echoing postures. Your target will not only feel at ease in your company but will perceive you as more like-minded. This technique has no limits.

Facial Expression
An ability to read and interpret the facial expression of your partner will improve your chance for a successful flirting. You will know if she is into you.

Thursday, July 31, 2008

Flirting: Take a Step Forward

Every dating experience begins with a simple flirting. It is much better than just a sizzle of fun: it is a universal and consequential aspect of human interaction - it is a basic instinct, part of human nature. And like human activity, flirting governs unwritten rules and etiquette.

First you have to know the place to flirt. The question is where to flirt.
> Flirting is best acceptable in parties, social functions or celebrations. At such events flirtatious behaviour is almost expected.
> Public settings such as bars, clubs, pubs, etc - a place where usually alcohol is served! Oh!
> At work well, there are some restrictions of course, only in certain areas.
> Special events where social interaction is not a primary purpose but still could be a little conducive - though the actions are limited.

Second question is who to flirt with? Actually you can flirt with anyone. An exchange of admiring glances or a bit of light-hearted flirtatious banter can brighten the day, raise self-esteem and strengthen social bonds.This kind of flirting is for fun. But a different kind of flirting like flirting with intent - tend to be more selective with your target.

Third, how shall you flirt? Its like an instinct right? But hey you must know the key. The first key to successful flirting is not an ability to show off and impress, but the knack of conveying that you like someone. If your 'victim' knows that you find her interesting and attractive, she will be more inclined to like you..

Learn more about flirting and more as we go on..